Public speaking is a skill. A skill is something that anybody can learn. Like football or playing the guitar, it just takes simple instruction and practice to get good at it. Even a groom can be confident and successful when all eyes are on him. Focusing on being afraid or on a negative past experience can lead you to miss the fact that speaking in front of people can be learned. You’ll find the confidence you need by setting these things aside.

Take a look at these simple tips to bolster your nerve:

Be prepared. Look up examples of grooms’ speeches. It won’t take long for you to identify with certain parts of what you see. Always be aware of having a balance of humor, sentiment and specifics.

Make notes. List out the name of people you should acknowledge and make an outline of the things you want to say. Tuck it away, but keep it handy. This can help give you some peace of mind when it’s time for your speech.

Imagine being a crowd pleaser. Let yourself feel what it might be like to hear the applause and laughter and relax into the sensation. Also think about yourself delivering your speech and how you’ll want to say things in a way that keeps the audience engaged.

Avoid glitches. On the day of your wedding, make sure everything is in place for your speech. Be aware of your location and check the mics and sounds system. Anything you find that needs to be improved or changed can be done prior to the speech to insure your moment is uninterrupted.

Have a schedule of events. Listing out an order of events will help you to avoid having special moments seem awkward or unplanned. This should be coordinated ahead of time with your wedding planner or host so that they are responsible for a flow that allows for a pleasant reception without long delays between elements of your day. Click here to read more on the best wedding speech ideas.